Empathy Is Actually a Choice
(There is a great difference between empathy and sympathy. On the one hand sympathy implies that one finds a common ground with another and seeks to understand the issue of emotional state of being the other is experiencing. This is more of a mental experience and in the Inner Traditions is regarded as a mental exercise. Empathy on the other hand is a connectedness of being. Her one dives into the experience of the feelings and emotions that another is having and has them for themselves. The mental separation and distinction disappears and the unity of experience flourishes.
Here writers Daryl Cameron, William A. Cunningham and Michael Inzlicht explore the idea of empathy form a psychological perspective. Remember this when reading, and it is a very good article, Psycholgy has its roots in the Mystery Tradition. It is the externalization and dilution of a very great science of consciousness and as such todays great artisans of the mind act and respond from that sacred place. Enjoy. Nigel)
ONE death is a tragedy. One million is a statistic.
You’ve probably heard this saying before. It is thought to capture an unfortunate truth about empathy: While a single crying child or injured puppy tugs at our heartstrings, large numbers of suffering people, as in epidemics, earthquakes and genocides, do not inspire a comparable reaction.
Studies have repeatedly confirmed this. It’s a troubling finding because, as recent research has demonstrated, many of us believe that if more lives are at stake, we will – and should – feel more empathy (i.e., vicariously share others’ experiences) and do more to help.
Not only does empathy seem to fail when it is needed most, but it also appears to play favorites. Recent studies have shown that our empathy is dampened or constrained when it comes to people of different races, nationalities or creeds. These results suggest that empathy is a limited resource, like a fossil fuel, which we cannot extend indefinitely or to everyone.
What, then, is the relationship between empathy and morality? Traditionally, empathy has been seen as a force for moral good, motivating virtuous deeds. Yet a growing chorus of critics, inspired by findings like those above, depict empathy as a source of moral failure. In the words of the psychologist Paul Bloom, empathy is a “parochial, narrow-minded” emotion – one that “will have to yield to reason if humanity is to survive.”
We disagree. Read more…